You Can Change, If You Believe!

Personal growth and development is a process and those seeking to effect changes in their lives know that real success comes from changing their thought first. However, many find this not to be quite as simple as it first appears. The movie, "The Secret" brought much attention to the Law of Attraction and many people have embraced the concept, but the movie was not intended to be a full course on how to change your life, rather just an introduction to the Law of Attraction concept.

After watching the movie many were thinking that all they needed to do is think their way to a new life and success. The management of your thinking is key to your ability to make changes but certainly not all there is to it. It doesn't help that their are self improvement teachers focusing mainly on the changing of your thought without delving into the other deeper aspects. This simplified version of The Law of Attraction focuses only your conscious thought, and does not delve into the power your unconscious thought holds over your everyday thought, feelings and behavior.

Your unconscious thought plays a major role in your overall thinking, and most influential are your beliefs. You hold deep seated beliefs that were set up usually without your conscious awareness, and are deeply integrated into your automatic operating system. These beliefs define exactly how you view yourself, the world around you, people and anything else you are in contact with. How you perceive everything, how you react to it and the actions you take are totally regulated by a set of firmly anchored unconscious beliefs.

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Dealing With Self-Esteem Issues!

Situation that we should be aware of for the sake our self esteem. Beware of “dog eat dog” theory where everyone else is fighting just to get ahead. This is where non-appreciative people usually thrive. Stay away from it, it will ruin your self esteem. Competition is everywhere. Be healthy enough to compete, but in a healthy competition that is good for your self esteem.



People that you associate with can have an impact on your self esteem. Bulldozers, brown nosers, gossipmongers, whiners, backstabbers, snipers, people walking wounded, controllers, naggers, complainers are people to avoid at all cost.

It’s okay to cry and show a few tears once in a while when we experience pain. But don’t let pain transform itself into fear. It might grab you by the tail and swing you around. Treat each failure and mistake as a lesson. A lesson learned is a lesson that will strengthen your self esteem in one or another.

Questions that you sometimes, may wonder about, if some people are born leaders or positive thinkers. NO. Being positive, and staying positive is a choice. What is self esteem ? Building self esteem and drawing lines for self improvement is a choice, not a rule or a talent. God in is greatness give us the choice and we are in control, we decide whaterver we want for ourselves then we reap the rewards or the consequences.